Yes, this question was answered in different ways, none of which answered in the way that suits my needs. Therefore, therefore, I ask my question, peculiar to my situation.
I tried maybe 5 or 6 different ways to set up a mail server (SMTP) on my backup computer at home, which I also installed to run my website. My ISP blocks several ports, such as 80 and 25, which allow you to host web servers, mail servers, ftp servers. etc. Fortunately, my domain registrar had a way to redirect my traffic to a specific port, where then I used some parameters in my router to transfer the port and redirect traffic from one port specified in the settings of my account on my registrar site to go to the port 80 on my computer with a web server that worked fine, and my website works.
However, I came to find out that by default when setting up an MX record so that I can set up a mail server, their system sends traffic to port 25 by default. (This is more likely than a web server pointer that I can specify: 012.345.678.910 : 8080, the MX record should be something like mail.mydomain.com or just mydomain.com. In their options (currently) there is no way to specify the port as you can for the website. So, I assume that two-part question: 1. I just accidentally chose a crappy domain registrar or, specifically, this is the default option by many other domain registrars that I just missed? and 2. Is there any other way to do this? My ISP charges a fee, as well as a hand for Business accounts that unlock port 25, and I donāt I will need to go this route. I understand that you can set your SMTP server to listen and send traffic to another port, but Iām not happy if my MX domain registrar record still forwards port 25 for incoming mail. Any help or advice on this would be very helpful. Thanks.
EDIT:
I missed the obvious possibility that I could ruin my setup due to the fact that I never set up an SMTP server, so I'm completely new to this. With this sad, is it possible to confuse how the mail servers work, is there a difference or the likelihood that the Internet provider blocks incoming traffic to the outgoing port? I mean, I got confused that if I set everything up correctly, should I receive (listen) or port 25 no matter what you would like, and then send outgoing mail to the unlocked smtp port?
I still need to try sending mail from my server because I donāt want something to be configured incorrectly, and then get my blacklist, so I was just trying to experiment with trying to get email and, as I said , I tried about 5 or 6 (all very confusing and seemingly incomplete or not very detailed) tutorials on how to set up an SMTP server, and I still have to receive incoming mail. As a personal remark, it seems strange to me that out of several trainees, I searched and read that none of them bear almost any similarity with respect to the first part of the postfix installation; from there, everything becomes different. This does not help me understand what I can do wrong if this is really what is happening. Finally, for continuity, I went to http://port25.icannotconnect.com/ and he really said āBLOCKā.
Thanks again.