Try something like this:
 DECLARE @input XML = '<footballteams> <team manager="Benitez"> <name>Liverpool</name> <ground>Anfield</ground> </team> <team manager="Mourinho"> <name>Chelsea</name> <ground>Stamford Bridge</ground> </team> <team manager="Wenger"> <name>Arsenal</name> <ground>Highbury</ground> </team> </footballteams>' SELECT TeamName = Foot.value('(name)[1]', 'varchar(100)'), Manager = Foot.value('(@manager)', 'varchar(100)'), Ground = Foot.value('(ground)[1]', 'varchar(100)') FROM @input.nodes('/footballteams/team') AS Tbl(Foot) 
Basically, calling .nodes() creates a pseudo-table called Tbl with one XML column called Foot that will contain each <team> XML node as its value.
Then you can select from this pseudo-table and extract individual values ββof XML attributes ( @manager ) and elements ( name , ground ) from this XML <team> fragment and convert them to T -SQL data value of the type of your choice.
To insert these values ββinto your table, simply use the INSERT based on this:
 ;WITH ShreddedData AS ( SELECT TeamName = Foot.value('(name)[1]', 'varchar(100)'), Manager = Foot.value('(@manager)', 'varchar(100)'), Ground = Foot.value('(ground)[1]', 'varchar(100)') FROM @input.nodes('/footballteams/team') AS Tbl(Foot) ) INSERT INTO dbo.FootballTeams(Name, Manager, Ground) SELECT TeamName, Manager, Ground FROM ShreddedData 
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