This is easy to do using FQL.
query = "SELECT uid2 FROM friend WHERE uid1=me() and uid2=FRIEDS ID HERE" @rest = Koala::Facebook::API.new(oauth_access_token)
You can test it here if you add an access token.
https://graph.facebook.com/fql?q=SELECT uid2 FROM friend WHERE uid1=me() and uid2=123456
You can also check the multiplicity in one:
SELECT uid2 FROM friend WHERE uid1=me() and uid2 in (123,1234)
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