I just needed to do this, @VoidMan was close. However, you need to specify a view. For instance:
If your column is configured with itemId as follows:
{ header: 'A Column', dataIndex: 'data', width: 70, itemId: 'myColumnItemId' }
You can call it like this:
grid.getView().getHeaderCt().child('#myColumnItemId')
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