I made a fiddle that mimics the facebook status window ...
http://jsfiddle.net/UnsungHero97/mFuD4/5/
I added some functionality, for example, in particular, I found a cool jQuery plugin that allows you to automatically resize text .
Facebook actually uses the <textarea> element, and the way they care about the border is simple.

"What do you think?" the text is inside the <textarea> element, and the border around it is connected to several wrappers of the <div> elements (more than what I showed 2). Also, as you pointed out, a small arrow on top of "What do you think?" it's a .gif image, but there are ways to do it using only CSS!
Regarding the triangle ...
If you are interested in alternative ways to do this using only CSS, I recently asked a question about a small triangle! That is the question ...
How to create tooltip tail using pure CSS?
... and here are the answers:
Hope this helps. Christo
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