The quick fix was to use the lsof command
[root@host]
COMMAND PID USER FD TYPE DEVICE SIZE NODE NAME
gdm-binar 11442 root mem REG 8,6 30899 295010 /lib/libattr.so.1.1.0
gdm-binar 12195 root mem REG 8,6 30899 295010 /lib/libattr.so.1.1.0
This should work not only for files .so, but also for any other files, dirs, mount points, etc.
N.B. lsof , , , , *.so, . , .