I think you need to make your own adapter, which extends SimpleExpandableListAdapter. In this class you must override
public View getGroupView(int groupPosition, boolean isExpanded, View convertView, ViewGroup parent) {
View result = super.getGroupView(groupPosition, isExpanded, convertView, parent);
if (isExpanded) {
result.setBackgroundDrawable(expandBG);
} else {
result.setBackgroundDrawable(collapseBG);
}
return result;
}
onCreate smth, :
myView.setlistAdapter (new YourExtendedSimpleExpandableListAdapter( ...... ));
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