You can usually pass a parameter --prefixin order to configure it to install the library elsewhere. Therefore, for the personal version, you can run it as:
./configure --prefix=$HOME/usr/libX
$HOME/usr/libX/bin, $HOME/usr/libX/lib, $HOME/usr/libX/etc ..
libY , configure script pkg-config, , . libX .pc $HOME/usr/libX/lib/pkgconfig, configure, . pkg-config, .
PKG_CONFIG_PATH .
libY
PKG_CONFIG_PATH=$HOME/usr/libX/lib/pkgconfig:/usr/local/lib/pkgconfig ./configure
man pkg-config .