You can also try,
SELECT person_a, person_b
FROM friendship
WHERE person_a = 'sam' or person_b = 'sam'
Use the query like this, after that
if(person_a=='sam') {
$frnd = $rowfetch["person_b"];
} else if(person_b=='sam') {
$frnd = $rowfetch["person_a"];
}
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