I'm not sure what exactly you ask.
When you talk about sending through a proxy server, can you give more details?
If you mean "how to send SMTP through an HTTP proxy", you will not be able to. HTTP proxies only support HTTP and HTTPS, although some proxies also support FTP, SOCKS, etc., but not (as far as I know) SMTP.
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