You should divide this into two parts:
- What do you want to say?
- What is the best way to say this?
Whatever formalism you use to answer the second part, you must be sure that this is not unique.
The good value of UML is that a lot of semantics are already defined by the language, so you do not need to include a definition of what these fields, lines and arrows in the collaboration diagram mean.
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