You must have control of your component, so move isVisble to the details, and then assign it from MySuperComponent.
Also pass the MyComponent callback so that it can tell the parent if it wants to change state.
You need a data structure to store these states.
https://codepen.io/mazhuravlev/pen/qxRGzE
class MySuperComponent extends React.Component {
constructor(props) {
super(props);
this.state = {children: [true, true, true]};
this.toggle = this.toggle.bind(this);
}
render() {
return (
<div>
{this.state.children.map((v, i) => <MyComponent visible={v} toggle={() => this.toggle(i)}/>)}
</div>
)
}
toggle(index) {
this.setState({children: this.state.children.map((v, i) => i !== index)});
}
}
class MyComponent extends React.Component {
render() {
const text = this.props.visible ? 'visible' : 'hidden';
return (<div onClick={this.props.toggle}>{text}</div>);
}
}
React.render(<MySuperComponent/>, document.getElementById('app'));