just aim at the item and check if it is there by checking the collections length
Exact match with 1
if ( $('#parent div[data-child-nr="1"]').length ) { ...
Contains 1
if ( $('#parent div[data-child-nr*="1"]').length ) { ...
Begin with 1
if ( $('#parent div[data-child-nr^="1"]').length ) { ...
Ends on 1
if ( $('#parent div[data-child-nr$="1"]').length ) { ...
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