Find out the answer after some study.
1) Yes, you need to run a separate acting system if it is physically located in another system. This means that you can join the seed nodes. Otherwise, when an actor dies, there is no actor system to restart it.
2) Roles are not used to send messages. It is simply used to tell other nodes in the cluster that a node has joined the cluster with this tag..
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