You can use the verb PATCH, but you must use the Apache HTTP client lib with the RestTemplate class with exchange (). A piece of the map may not be necessary for you. The EmailPatch class below contains only the field that we want to update in the request.
ObjectMapper mapper = new ObjectMapper();
mapper.configure(DeserializationFeature.FAIL_ON_UNKNOWN_PROPERTIES, false);
mapper.registerModule(new Jackson2HalModule());
MappingJackson2HttpMessageConverter converter = new MappingJackson2HttpMessageConverter();
converter.setSupportedMediaTypes(MediaType.parseMediaTypes("application/hal+json"));
converter.setObjectMapper(mapper);
HttpClient httpClient = HttpClients.createDefault();
RestTemplate restTemplate = new RestTemplate(Collections.<HttpMessageConverter<?>> singletonList(converter));
restTemplate.setRequestFactory(new HttpComponentsClientHttpRequestFactory(httpClient));
EmailPatch patch = new EmailPatch();
patch.setStatus(1);
ResponseEntity<String> exchange = restTemplate.exchange(url, HttpMethod.PATCH, new HttpEntity<EmailPatch>(patch),
String.class);