unfortunately not possible from python (cv2) atm.
while you can do it from C ++,
string yml;
FileStorage fs;
fs.open(yml,FileStorage::READ|FileStorage::MEMORY);
facereco->load(fs);
fs.release();
, FileStorage api, FaceReco:: load (FileStorage &) python
(sidenote: , facereco yml.gz, 1/5 xml)