I think the answer is no.
The standard says (ยง23.2.2 / 1):
To avoid data calculations (17.6.5.9), implementations should take into account the following functions: begin, end, rbegin, rend, front, back, data, find, lower_bound, upper_bound, equal_range, at, and, in addition to associative or unordered associative containers, the [ ].
At least, how I would interpret things (and Herb Sutter seems to agree ), which means that these functions (and only those functions) can be considered as "thread safe". Push and pop are not on the list, so you cannot assume that they are thread safe.
I would also add that even popping will actually write data - when you pull an item from the container, the size of the container must be updated, so when you click and press, entries appear. When more than one thread writes, you need to do something to ensure only one thread at a time.
To summarize: sorry, but no.
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