I have the following chart.
lst={{1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1}, {1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 1}, {1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 1}, {1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 1}, {1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 1}, {1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 1}, {1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 1}, {1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 1}, {1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1}}; ArrayPlot[lst, Mesh -> All, MeshStyle -> Directive[AbsoluteThickness[3.], Gray, Opacity[0.1]]]

But this does not look the way I expected, in which I want the gray borders / grids for the black squares to be clouded by the color of these black squares. Show only gray borders / grids of white squares.