Firebird is a good DBMS, but, unfortunately, it is not very widespread either in web applications or in hosting companies.
Personally, I like the FB software, but I'm not too keen on the community around it.
And forcing UTF8 to work with a region case-insensitive order ... It made me abandon it.
I would recommend postgres, mysql (or mariadb).
Some people still think mysql is unstable, I never had any problems, but did not work with data larger than 1 GB.
Whatever you choose, plan backups.
UPDATE Someone refused my answer. Sharing my bad experience with the FB Foundation, and, to be precise, H. Borry does not make this answer "not useful." If the attitude has improved from doctors, I sincerely congratulate FB.
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