... too long for a comment ... might add sample code to this if OP requests ...
If "WinForms", add the "WinForms" tag to your tags.
You might want to clarify: are you looking for a solution that will "scale" to cover the case where you may have many UserControl controls (tens? Hundreds?) That you reuse in many Forms, all of which need to be synchronized :
If you are (looking for scaling), then I think you need to study "DataSource as Asad offers" (note that only certain WinForms controls, like ComboBox, have the DataSource property) DataBinding, as Jake suggests; both of these responses indicate the need to use a "higher level" for state synchronization.
For a “smaller scale” solution, you can add a Settings file and use it as a repository for current values.
In any case, you still need to raise an event ... each time you change the current UserControl that has focus ... to start updating controls in other instances of UserControl.
Or, depending on your design and requirements, if you can agree that each UserControl is not updated immediately: you can delay the launch of the update until the user switches to another form: then the previously active form will launch it "Deactivate the event : in this event, you can determine if the settings have changed (using some kind of dirty bit in UserControl?), and then update other UserControls as necessary: suppose you really want an immediate update.
Another good thing, imho, to clarify in order to get the best answers here may be: exactly how these multiple Forms, each of which contains an instance of the same UserControl, are created: is there one “Main Form” that creates all the other instances of the Form : or this is the "SDI" model, where each form is created independently. In any of the Forms, the parent property is set to a non-zero value (i.e., Does any of the forms have a different form as a parent)?
If you need an example of working code for using an open static class to solve the "small scale" to your question "as asked": just ask here and I will send it: it will not be "elegant," but it will work :)