you can assign them an ID, for example
<ul> <li id="1">item 1</li> <li id="2">item 2</li> <li id="3">item 3</li> </ul>
then:
$("li").live('click', function(){ alert($(this).attr("id")); }
or without identifiers, as Sinan says:
$("li").live('click', function(){ alert($("li").index(this) + 1); }
+1 because indexing starts at 0
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