You do not need to specifically connect to a specific instance, each instance in the redis cluster has cluster information. Therefore, even if you connect to one host, your client will connect to any instance in the cluster. Therefore, if you try to update a key that is present in different wizards (except the one you connected), the redis client will take care of this using the redirection provided by the server.
To answer the second question, you can enable reading from the slave READONLY command
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